On a positive side, my creative juices start flowing when I can't just send the boys in the backyard to play. I use the dreary weather to take time to make crafts with the boys. We don't do huge things because they are two and three. We color A LOT. We cut paper A LOT. We make paper plate masks and wreathes out of candy corn. The boys are so messy, but they absolutely love making things. They get so excited to create.
I am not very creative. I can see an idea and copy it because I'm a perfectionist, but I can't just come up with an idea in my head. I hope that spending time with the boys just letting them create whatever and however they want, will somehow spark a creative part of their brain. I want them to have the confidence to try anything or do anything! For some reason I associate that to creating paper plate masks. I want them to make what comes to their imagination and not say, "no, that's not how you do it". I want to encourage them to go wild and dream big even if it's just with a paper plate. Is that weird?
Maybe I am weird, but I know that I lacked so much confidence in high school. I missed out on so much because I was afraid to try. I always wanted to be the best, so if I didn't think I had a chance at being the best, well, I just didn't even try. I never want my boys to have that attitude. I want them to try whatever their heart desires, and I want to be their biggest fan in whatever they choose.


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