It's so crazy to look back and realize that God was preparing a way for us to go to Idaho before we even realized. God's timing is perfect. I want to record this so that I can remember ways He's provided for us.
July
*First off, we saved up enough money to buy a minivan. We needed a van. I loved our Pilot, but it just wasn't enough space for 3 kiddos and their large carseats.
August
*I finally put my trust in God, and handed our finances over. I decided to quit my job because my kiddos needed my undivided attention.
*I like to use my running time as a time to pray and decompress. My prayer while running was for God to help Bryan and I know if going to Idaho was in His plan for us. I knew I wanted to be in Idaho, but I didn't know if God wanted us there. I asked the Lord to just start shutting doors firmly if Idaho was not where we should go. I wanted to be fully invested in Oregon if that is where God wanted us. The NEXT day Bryan came home from work. He had a conversation with his boss that went like this-
Bryan - "Haven't seen you around much, where have you been?"
Boss - "Looking for a house for you in Idaho"
His boss was half-joking, but to me that was confirmation that the Lord would have us in Idaho at some point.
*We found out that Bryan's per diem and gas card for a job he was working added up to about the EXACT amount of my bring home pay every month.
September
*We sold our Pilot. It had been a stresser for me, and once we sold it, I felt stress free. I really have no idea why I was stressing about it, but for some reason it was something I thought about constantly.
October
*Six days after we sold the Pilot, we found out we had three weeks to wrap up our lives in Oregon and move to Idaho.
*My last week of work was the week we found out we'd be moving. No stress there. I knew I'd have an extra 32 hours a week to pack up our house and get to Idaho.
*Our house has been on the market for over a year. Long time. Bryan chatted with our realtor to see if we could get out of our contract with him because we needed to try and sell it ourself or rent it or SOMETHING other than just have it sitting on the market. Our realtor is working with us and going to reduce his rate to help us sell this house. YES!
November
*We decided to short sale our house because we lowered the price to as low as we could go with the realtor reducing his fees, and not one ounce of interest. A week after we listed it as a short sale, we got an offer. A week after our first offer, we got a second back up offer. We got all the paperwork in the last week of November.
December
*We found a great, large rental to live in until we can buy a house. It's about a mile away from the preschool we want to send Isaiah to.
January
*The bank finally got around to looking at our house, they made a counter offer, now we're waiting for the buyers to counter or walk away.
February
*The buyers made a counter offer, so it's all up to the bank.
*Bank accepted offer, told us our closing costs, now we're waiting for a closing date!
March
*Still waiting for a closing date
April
*Have a closing date - May 8
May
*Made an offer on some property on May 7
*Closed on our house on May 8
*Offer accepted on May 9
*Closed on the property May 31
With our house being on the market for a year and a half before we decided to short sale, I know our house selling was God at work. In His timing. Our life is always a million times better when God is in charge, and we are not. I'm a planner, but God's plan is always, always, always way better than the plan I came up with in my head. I'm not sure why I still try to plan, but I do. I am continually amazed by God.
This short sale was definitely a lesson in humility for me. I am a very proud person when it comes to money - not that I am proud to have money, but I take pride in using money wisely and paying my bills on time and always in full. So difficult of a time for me, but on the flip side - It would not have been wise to keep the house and rent it. It would have cost us a lot of money monthly just to rent it to someone. It was very difficult for me, but God taught me so much through this entire process!